Monday, July 16, 2018
One day, I'd be all steadfast faith; convinced of their eternal joy. Then the next day, my faith would evaporate the second I saw a child that was around my toddler boy or baby girl's age. Or a young guy around my husband's age. My faith was strong enough, all right. Strong until another trigger slammed me down to my knees. Like a wobbling fighter in the ring, one more good right hook took me down. Very down. But God provided a way out.
They were mother and daughter. (The daughter was near my age.) Both had experienced child bereavement and now both were "mentoring" me after my own bereavement. Only one had Faith that I could survive, though. The other prayed I'd never wake up from my post-accident surgery, to spare me from what she endured. It scared me, all the talk I heard around me, from some moms who'd trod the path for so long. How, "The horrible pain never stops!" "It never gets better!" Scary stuff! What my future would be like?
Don't listen to anyone who is ultimately discrediting God's ability to save you from bereavement's stabbing pain. Even if they've been on the journey a long time and other things they've said have been helpful. Your path is your own. And you can survive! You can regain a life without constant horror. Give it to God to "fix." Let Him handle it. Then step back. Expect to receive. (Even if it's a teeny-weeny faith-expectation--at least, you're trying!)
I'm glad I decided to follow the example of the mother--not the daughter. Only one of those two led me closer to Jesus and the glimmering of a way out of gloom. I took her hand, weakly trusting He knew the way out. What happened afterward?
"He brought me out into a spacious place; he rescued me because he delighted in me." (NIV Psalm 18:19).
Don't get all hung up on "Because he delighted in me." It only takes a tiny mustard seed amount of faith to "delight" God. Maybe that's all we can come up with under such intense pain . . . but it's enough to change our world for the better. Peace, Donna
My Blogs Listing
- ▼ 2018 (7)
- ► 2017 (8)
- ► 2016 (11)
- ► 2015 (22)
- ► 2014 (26)
- ► 2013 (24)
- ► 2012 (22)